logo


Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.



Trust issue webpage



Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I'd been seeing this guy for a month and things were great but then one day he suddenly became sick and I didn't believe him so I got upset with him. This sounds immature but I have so many times been given the run around by guys that I thought this guy was doing the same thing to me. I went so far as to break up with this guy because he got "sick" and didn't want to come see me and plus it was Valentine's Day and I was mad we had to cancel dinner plans. I realized the error of my ways and have tried to apologize and reassure him I am working on my trust issues and he said he needs time to think things over. My question is do I wait and if so for how long or should I move on? Most importantly, how do I learn to trust again? Thank you for any advice.




RomanceClass.com Advice
This another response to your question... and that is to take a look at this webpage which seems very good: http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Good luck! George

Trust is probably learned at home at an early age.

If not, then it can be harmed by a few bad experiences with the opposite sex.

You seem to have a bad case of not trusting. One problem with that is that when you don't trust someone they feel untrusted and end up disappointing you. If you had trusted them they might have made you happy.

Besides seeing a professional counselor (which I recommend if you can do it) the next chance you get make trust your highest priority in your next relationship. Keep telling yourself that you trust them and you probably will.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com





Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit
 


Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Kissing / Intimacy

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response



Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.
Advertisement


Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com




Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


 

Follow Me on Pinterest


Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!


 
RomanceClass on Facebook




Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues





| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

Irish Wedding