Giving a Hickey

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am 15 and me and my gf have been friends before this for a long time and I was just wondering, How do I gain up enough courage to give her a hickey, I mean we've done stuff that was past that but this will be my first time giving a hickey and how do I know if she liked it or not? and how do I know when

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RomanceClass.com Advice
A hickey isn't something you do for pleasure, like a special kiss. A hickey is sort of like branding your cow :) It is a physical mark you put on someone that says "This person is MINE!" Many girls hate hickeys for that reason, they don't want to be owned! Plus it is a royal pain to have your parents and teachers yelling at you for having a hickey on your neck. And other kids tend to tease you a lot too.

I would really talk with her first about whether she wants one or not. You're going to be bruising her, it hurts to have it done to you, and then she has to live with this bruise for days if not a week or more. If she wants it, then fine. But if she doesn't, draw a heart on her hand instead or something.

Here is more about hickeys:

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/hickey.asp

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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