logo


Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love is the poetry of the senses. --Honoré de Balzac



I need help trusting ( when he did not do nothing wrong



Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am in a relationship for a year now and its not that complicated. He was a player before me I met him and he had a girlfriend that he lived with and she had 3 kids.( None were his.( He said he wanted to start a family of his own). He said he was having problems. I keep talking to him as friends for the next 2 months. We hung out everyday and went home to sleep for 4hours then come back and we hang all day. One day at the end of 2 months he left the girl he was having problems and a month later and we started going out. From that moment he left till this day we have been insperable. He has stop smoking and drinking. And hanging with his friends that were not good influence. We finally moved in together. He comes home to me everyday right after work. Besides that we go every where together.


But for some reason I can not trust him. He was honest about everything from the beginning. And I saw how he lied to her to spend time with me just the first few days then he moved out. He said that he broke things off with the girl because he was unhappy and wanted to find the one for him. And my parents do not have issues they are happily married for 30 years. So the rust issues is not fromt there. I just think that cause he did it to someone, that means it could happen to me.


I know I choose to be with him and he knows I have my trust issue. He says it been a year that I should get over it and that he is not going any where,he said that he wants to be with me forever. He popped the question and gave me a ring like 1 month ago. And I know he loves me.


How can I trust him?




RomanceClass.com Advice
Ask yourself how you can trust YOU.

You were part of the cheating too. How can you be trusted?

You only cheated a few days before he left her so this isn't a big-time problem unless you make it one.

You have everything you want so your lack of trust may be hiding some worries about your situation. Think hard about it. Do you love him and want to be with him forever? If you are not sure, do yourself (and him) a favor and split up with him. Both of you deserve better than an untrusting relationship. And, it seems nothing he says or does will change your feelings.

Maybe it would help if you saw a professional counselor. This is important.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com





Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit
 


Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Other

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response



Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.
Advertisement


Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com




Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


 

Follow Me on Pinterest


Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!


 
RomanceClass on Facebook




Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues





| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright © 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

origami wedding favors