He Has a Girlfriend - He Spends Time with Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im falling for this guy...the problem is he has a girlfriend. he always compliments me, and we talk all the time.he comes over and we just watch movies and talk. but then we started messing around.

i just cant understand- if he loves her, why does he spend all of his time with me? he hasnt seen her in weeks. i dont know what to do, and i cant talk to him to ask him whats going on. please help!

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RomanceClass.com Advice
You mess around with him - but you can't talk to him - but you want to date him??? Talking is the FIRST thing you need to be able to do in any relationship. Either you learn to talk to him - and you DO talk to him - or none of this is going to work. Also, I would have serious doubts about dating a guy who is already a proven cheater. Never mind a cheater who can't talk to the girl he is cheating with.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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