We have been together for 9 years and we just don't seem to want the same things anymore.

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We have been together for 9 years and we just don't seem to want the same things anymore. He is always at work or out with his buddies and I miss hanging out with him and having fun. I don't feel like I catch his eye anymore. How do I get more attention out of him?

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You need to return to your roots to get back that first in-love feeling. Remember what you used to enjoy doing together and then go do it. Revisit old haunts, places where you used to go on dates. Introduce some pizazz into the relationship by sending him chocolates at his work. Go to a movie and sit in the back row, necking. Give him love notes tucked inside his briefcase.

Getting someone's interest again is a matter of surprising them and getting them to think outside the rut that they've been in.

Good luck!

--Jenn


-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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