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She encouraged me and always misleaded me



Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Its a long story (My age is 25)
My friend interduced with a girl. whom i started liking ..we started communicating through sms. Her sms misleaded me and i drawn a conclusion that she also likes me. Untill then i didn't know she has bf. One days she told me that has a boy friend. And i decided to give up. But few days later she said she broke up with him. so i thought now it vill be easier for me.She shared everthing with me i did all that i could to do for her that time. And these are all happened over the phone and sms..I didn't even ask her to meet coz i was hesitating to ask her. I thought i vill keep on talking with her and when i vill get a chance i vill tell her my feelings. But unfortunately there was a another guy who took the advantage and proposed her at the moment without my knowledge. I didn't know this that there a another guy who also in a queue. Since they are in the same class and im in job.They got together but she didn't tell me about this coz she was very much aware of my feelings that i like her as well..I asked many times. she didn't disclose.that.After three months I came 2 know about the fact that she again tied up with someone else.I got hurt badly. Even then i kept on trying to express my feelings. She encouraged me and always misleaded me. I thought she still have something for me as well. Now i couldn't controlled and asked one for her friend about her bf . And i told her everthing that i loved you from the begining itself.I couldn'tcontrolled myself. Now everthing has changed. I can't call her frequently anymore like b4. She took it very sportingly.I think i've spoiled my image. She will think that even though i knew about her I did that. I want to know did i do any mistake by telling her my feelings which i've kept for a long time in me. She actually never wanted to disclose about her new affair. I didn't understand why she was not telling me. But I couldn't control myself and i told her my feelings Now we are only friends but i hesitate to call her..What would be your suggestion for me.Please give me advice im very frustated and i don't want to lose her..i still have hope she will come to me.but dont know how to proceed further with this. Looking forward to your suggestions




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The woman is dishonest.

She didn't tell you about her other male interests and affairs. You should stay away from her unless you want to be hurt more.

Fortunately, you found about her other interests before you were deeply in love with her.

If you still want to pursue her, call her every two weeks and ask her how she is doing, don't talk about your relationship. She may come around to like you.

Good luck!
George

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