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The Columbian Guy



Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i have a crush on this Columbian guy & he looks black my mom dosent want me going with him at all i really like him but in the other hand i dont know if he likes me back. He called me baby he wasn't playing. my friends say it looks like he does. he flirts back he told me that he wanted a kiss but we dint kiss not because of me we just dint find the right time. we hug alot last.

he also said that he has a question to ask me i asked him what but he told me to wait for the right time to come. but when were together we have a good time but sometimes he treats me kind of mean but he apologizes. he massaged my feet. but i really wanna know if he likes me back. eventhough im not sure if i wanna go with him hes really cute & im afraid of other girls taking him away from me. or if he would be flirting with other girls. help!!!!!!




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It must be inter-racial week, I just answered another question like this. In essence, most of my rant said that body color does not matter at all!! If your mother cares at all then she is WRONG. It was not that long ago that Irish people were "bad" and Italians were "bad". The definition of what is "white" and what is "black" changes daily. And ANY definition for a "good mate" that involves body color is really pretty inane. Your BRAIN is what makes you good or bad for each other. Is he nice to you? Does he care for you? There are lots of whites that are nasty. There are lots of blacks that are very sweet! To say "only date whites" is drawing a line in the sand that has no meaning. Great, so you can date a rapist, wife-beating white guy that will abuse his children and have drunken fits, because he's white??

If you like him, then go with him. Your parents do NOT control your life and they do NOT have to live with this guy when you are on your own. If you end up with an abusive, nasty WHITE GUY because that's what they ordered, they are the ones who will maybe visit 4 times a year and say "Oh well". You are the one who will have to LIVE with this guy for every single second of your entire life. Choose for YOU. Choose WISELY for you.

Get to know this guy as a friend and as a person you enjoy being with. If you really enjoy being with him and are comfortable talking about ANYTHING with him, then he is for you. Regardless of silly things like what color his skin is.

-- from Jenn
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