I am probably the expert here on breaking up LOL, I am 45 female, married for 18 years divorced, married for 4 years now. Dated probably 50+ different guys in my life.... that may be a bad thing.
BUT, I can tell you that the "you smoke and drive bad" thing is a crock. Thats is what she told you but not the real reason she didnt want to go out. The religion thing is strange because catholics are more open these days to others. Sounds like another excuse kinda blame the parents. She sounds immature for making up excuses. I would move on and find someone not so judgmental of you.
