Hi kinky_kitten ~ welcome! smile

Well, it could be that he really likes you as a friend and doesn't want to ruin it, or that he realises that he only likes you as a friend, rather than as a girlfriend, so wants to keep it that way.

Difficult to say without knowing you or him. The only way to be a bit clearer on this is to ask him.

Good luck! smile

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