Hello Raven
As we get older, and become involved with people, we take on more responsibilities and can sometimes have to deal with problems.
It's all part of life's pattern.
Once we grow to love someone, their problems become ours.
You have had problems and your boyfriend has had problems.
He has supported you through yours; now you can support him through his.
This may make you panic a bit, but try not to let it.
Take some deep breaths and accept that you can only do what you can do, but that you will do your best.
At present, your boyfriend is in hospital.
They are giving him the medical attention that he needs.
All he needs from you is your love and support.
But he cannot do anything for you at present.
That's fine. You are strong. You know that he cares.
Both of you have relatives ~ can they help?
The important thing is that he cares about you and you care about him.
Calm down.
You don't know how serious it really is, so don't panic.
I think that you said that you had a counsellor ~ talk it through with him / her.
And post on here if you need to vent or discuss.
