Is your name Connie, or is Pretty Bird's name Connie?
Anyhow, I see your point. As a "househusband," I know well that people assume that certain tasks and ways of thinking are gender-related, when they're not. So my apologies for talking about men being different than women. I think they are in many ways, but there are probably as many "design stars" who are men as there are women.
And probably many women who see no need for continuous redecorating, either.
I don't think I'll go back and rework the post, but please consider my statement to be:
"I am so different than Marge. To me, when a room is set up the way I like it...."
