Good advice Carl,Thanks!I was talking with a freind today,and he pointed out that I should look at it from her perspective.She had planned this a while ago,then I come into the picture and complicate things.I just want her to be happy and do what's best for herself.If that includes me,then that's great.If not,she's someone I'll never forget and consider myself blessed to have known her I'll have to take a leap of faith and keep it alive as long as I can.