Don't let anyone pressure you into sex. It is a personal & private matter and no-one's business but your own.
Well, until you reach the age of consent, it is also your parents' business ~ and it could become a police matter, if she is under the age of consent. How do you feel about that?
I do think that it is wise to listen to other people's advice & experiences, so that you and she can make up your own minds based on serious mature thought.
Think carefully.
Don't be pressured ~ not even by her.
How come other people are involved in discussing your sex life anyway?
It should be private. Don't get into the 'kiss and tell' thing. That's just unpleasant.
And there are things to consider like how your parents would react if they knew that you were sexually active.
Also, I just wonder how you think you would feel if this relationship became sexual but turned out to be temporary ~ and you later found the true girl of your dreams & life partner. Would that concern you, do you think?
