That sounds like a thoughtful tradeoff, Lisa.

I know Dan and I have trouble finding things we both enjoy doing. When we tend to do things together it's more like going for a hike (mostly for me), going with him to a sportsbars to watch the Lakers (mostly for him), or watching a series we both enjoy together on netflix (for both of us). We also both enjoy going to a bookstore, gardening together, and building things.

There are things we WON'T do with each other - he won't visit wineries with me, visit a new town, or go thrift shopping. I am not into watching the programs he enjoys about history, TED, or on the Discovery channel (I would rather read).