Thank you for your response. Yes, he did mention he feels very conflicted with all of this. Because I want him to be happy in his life, comfortable with his decisions I did not even attempt to dissuade him from his decision. He sent me an email yesterday saying he is ├Čn a holding pattern, very difficult to remain positive``. I sent him a very positive response. I just want what is best for him but at the same time it is difficult watching someone you care so deeply for seeming to sink into a further depression. Now what should I say to him?