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Ok this is how the story goes I’ve been going out with this girl for about 4months and she told me she liked someone else. So I did what any guy would do, brake up with her. 2 days later she comes back to me and says she wants me back.. So I gave her another chance (not sure if that was a good idea.) About a month later she brings the guy that she liked up again, we were walking together she got mad at me for no reason and said “fine ill go hang out with him instead of you.” I was so xxxxxx. After all that was said I did not brake up with her. I thought about it. But I didn’t. We made up and we were fine until she brought him up again about a month later (you think she would get the hint not to talk about him around me.) she has told me over and over that she dose not like him, that the thought of going out with him disgusts her. but I don’t know… What should I do??

uh...what does she talk to you about, about him? does she mention anything about hating him or liking him or hanging out with him or simple lil things she notices about him?

she hangs out with him but its only cause her best friend is goin out with this guy and the guy's best friend is the guy she liked so she sees him alot. he says hes nice and stuff

It sounds as if she doesn't know what she wants or feels.

I'm guessing that you are both quite young and really this is not surprising if you are.

Young people can get quite confused about their feelings. Someone might be quite unpleasant and yet, for some reason, also be quite attractive.

For her to talk to you about him may mean that she trusts you. Or it may be a warning that if he becomes available, or interested in her, she might become interested in him too.

Not sure.