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Just go there as you have in the previous weeks. Do not apologize because everything you have done is great and you didn't do anything wrong. If it were me, I would just continue acting as I have in the past.


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I wouldn't hide and send your daughter with a friend. She is your daughter after all. I understand that you will most likely feel nervous about seeing him again, but do you think you could ask him why he said no? Working in health care myself, the first thing that popped into my mind was medical ethics and confidentiality. Who knows? Maybe he'll say he'd like to see you after your daughter is no longer his patient.
You'll never know until you ask

Good luck, whatever you decide to do.


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Thanks, yes I am nervous, but I will go on Thursday and see him, will keep you posted, by the way I do have another question, he mentioned once that he liked middle eastern food, so I have on several occasions cooked and took for him food, he actually never said that he liked my cooking or not, (friends do say,I am a good cook), but actually thought it might not be to his taste, untill his secretary asked me, if I have a recipe for all the fabelous food that I bring for him!!!
In our culture it's perfecly allright to take food to the doctor, sign of appreciation, but is it ok here?, does it have other meaning to it, I was shocked to see on tv, a guy mentioning that a girl cooked for him and his friend tells him it means she want to sleep wih him!!!!!, I was horrified, hope it does not really mean that, and that is just TV talk, thanks again.

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I think it's perfectly fine to take home cooked food to him. And no, it doesn't mean that you want to sleep with him. Just hand over the food and tell him that you appreciate all that he's doing for your daughter.

Once again, good luck!!


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Hi, I did go with my daughter today to her appointment and did see him, well it was not as akward as I thought it would be, you actually managed to calm my nurves with your advice (thank you), and some retail therapy helped too, lol smile
I did not manage to look him in the eye, and we did talk only about my daughter, we usually talk about a lot of things, but I guess, we need time to get back to the way we were.
Looking back now, I am sure I did not misread the signs, like the first time I noticed, is when I was talking to him and he was looking in my eyes, then his eyes went down looking at my chest , then up again into my eyes, then down to my chest again, u can not misread that, and I have noticed several times from the corner of my eye, that he keeps looking at me, then when I turn towards him, he will look down and last week after I asked him out and he said nope, I was getting my daughter ready to leave, I did notice, he was looking at my face as if to asses what I was feeling!!.
Besides, he told me about his mom and dad's proffession and how strict they were bringing him up and that he is still looking for the right woman to marry and so many other things, I do not believe a doctor will tell his patient's mom!!!
any way, I do not regret asking him out, I do not like games, so now he knows I am interested, what ever reason he had to say no, does not matter now, either he asks me out, or explain himself, or be proffessional and stick to beeing a therapist.

Thanks again, and if anything new happens, will let you know.

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Well said, and well done. He knows you're interested so now the ball is in his court.
Like the part about retail therapy. Godd for the heart,spirit and soul...just not the pocketbook!!!!!


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