RomanceClass.com Forums Romance Dating I've fallen again. LOL

Well I will say, the thought of suicide hasn't crossed my mind since that one time. I have other fun things that can get my mind off of her. Which helps me through life. Like cooking, writing code and some other things. Yea my friends in college are 10y.o or more older than me. So they are either married or been through it too. Soo they are really cool to talk to about these things. but we have more fun doing other things like messing up our lab computers to the point of no return. lol.

Ofcourse i feel comfortable talking to my pastor, and yes he is trained. He's certified.

I feel like I am needed at my church, cause that's where god is pointing me. I work in children s' church(I'm the fun guy. DJ you can put it), IT tech, sound person.



Church is all I have right now.

Just take care

Uh oh. I got in contact with first love through facebook. and well.....let's just say i thought i was over her, but apparently I'm not. I mean my heart just shattered when i saw her face. I mean i haven't seen her in like a while(almost a year maybe). I'm so confused. I mean i want her back, but she's in another state than me.

Oh dear!

I think, though, that this is not uncommon. One's first real love is always going to be an important part of one's life.

Try to find some interests to take up your attention, so that your thoughts are not so involved with girls Difficult, I know

I know it aint uncommon. It's just, i don't get to speak to her for almost a year and then I find she's on face book. i try to talk to her there, but all I've been getting back are one line posts. It's weird. maybe she's busy doing something else, which is not uncommon for her, but during that year, it killed me inside not being to talk to her.

She probably doesn't want to give you the wrong impression.

She is being polite, but not encouraging you to think that you will get back together.

It is good for you ~ to be able to interact with her like this; no ties, just occasionally saying a polite hello.

Do try to find things to do, to take your mind off unattainable girls. You are good with computer graphics, etc. Get more involved with that ~ with friends who are equally interested.

If you just get on with your life, then you are more likely to find your Miss Right.

Well I'm trying to move on again. And apparently I'm moving pretty well. What can beat listening to the Chipmunks while doing wood work and 3D desgin. lol.

Good for you