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#394884 01/31/10 10:43 PM
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So I'm not a master at it yet but here's the situation I need to adapt to a different style I'm not used to.
My friends dating this girl and I have this strange feeling that she's attracted to me the way I seen her act, but her ways of flirting are like witty and teasing and I'm more used to playin the serious, nice guy routine, and I'm far from being quick on my feet with witty jokes, but this girl's pretty attractive herself and I wouldn't mind tryin to match that flirting style she's using on me.
Any tips to help improve my flirting style?

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Hello GhostFace.

Welcome smile

My advice?

1. It is always best to just be yourself.
Don't try too hard and don't try to be someone you aren't.

2. Don't go after your friend's girlfriend.
It just isn't done ~ and it would not look good, for you, either.


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.
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lol whoops, my mistake, i was typing too fast. Thanks for pointing that out I meant to say my friends dating this girl but it's her best friend that I think is flirting with me haha sorry I'm much more loyal than that

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lol whoops, my mistake, I was typing too fast thanks for pointing that out I meant to say my friends dating this girl but it's her best friend that I think is flirting with me haha sorry I'm much more loyal than that

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okay you said that you need help with flirting? And that this girl is your friends girlfriends friend right?


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I wouldn't necessarily try to change yourself to be more like anything else or anyone else. She is flirting with you because she likes YOU. She likes your style already.

So be you. If you're quiet and gentle, then be quiet and gentle, with a smile. Let her tell jokes, and laugh at them. If you try to out-joke her and out-wit her, that might not sit well with her.

Remember, she's flirting with you because she's fond of you the way you are.


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