I like a girl in my class

Posted by: PedroA28

I like a girl in my class - 05/29/14 11:36 AM

I have made attempts to talk to a girl I like but, did not respond when I said hi to her. she talked to me once before, but when I talk to her she just looks at me and doesnt say anything, what can I do?

des she like me?
Posted by: Lisa Shea

Re: I like a girl in my class - 05/30/14 06:06 PM

Pedro -

Girls can be very shy when approached in school. They feel like everyone around them is watching what they do.

Is there any way to figure out her email or facebook page, so you can talk to her quietly? That way she feels more comfortable?
Posted by: PedroA28

Re: I like a girl in my class - 05/30/14 07:12 PM

to be honest I prefer face to face conversation because FB and email is too impersonal... is it possible to try to catch up to her after class to talk? please read my other post if you haven't because it has a bit more insight into the situation. and thanks again for your help Ms. Shea
Posted by: Lisa Shea

Re: I like a girl in my class - 06/04/14 01:25 PM

Communication is about what the recipient wants, not about what you want smile. If you come at this problem solely from your own point of view, you'll have a challenge! You have to figure out what SHE wants - what SHE does best at - and work with that.
Posted by: PedroA28

Re: I like a girl in my class - 06/09/14 11:08 AM

Hey Lisa I have an update. somehow she found out my email and wrote me but not to my school email but my personal email about 6 days ago. but I didn't know it was her because I didn't know her name. I don't know whether to ask her about the class or be direct with her.
what do you think Ms. Shea?

Thank you.
Gerardo V.
Posted by: Lisa Shea

Re: I like a girl in my class - 06/20/14 05:28 AM

It does seem that she prefers email - which is good! Now you are sure of what she prefers and know what to do. Answer her email! Answer whatever she talked about. She prefers that safer form of communication. Be there in her world with her. Talk about the latest assignment.

Good luck!
Posted by: PedroA28

Re: I like a girl in my class - 06/20/14 08:28 PM

Thank you Ms. Shea... it's just that when we email we only speak of topical class conversation but when I ask how her day was or what she dreams of doing she does not respond... I'm unsure of what to do? should I continue or move on and forget her?

Thank you.
Posted by: Lisa Shea

Re: I like a girl in my class - 06/25/14 06:12 PM

PedroA28 -

You're still thinking in terms of what you want. Think in terms of what SHE wants and is comfortable with.

If she is comfortable talking about class, talk about class! It doesn't matter WHAT you talk about. It matters that you build that level of comfort with each other.

The things having are worth waiting for.