ok so this is gunna b long i hope someone will read it an help me out.....so in feb. 2007 i met this girl, i had a crush on her from the min. i saw her, months past by an we became best friends, an the crush grew more an more, i asked her out an she kept telling me no, in sept. SHE asked ME out, an we got together, and a few days ago shes telling me that she didnt want to get wiht me she only did it to make me happy, an we broke up, and now its like everytime i see her im sad and i want her in my arms, i asked her why she broke up with me she said she needs time....her and her ex were together from nov. 06 and some drama started with her an her parents and he dissapered in june 06, and now that school has started again her ex came back an tells her he thought they were together this whole time, and i think she ditched me cuz he came back even though she told me multiple times that she hates him and all that....its confusing im so hurt i dont know wat to do

just give her time me myself am a female she probably thought something bad happened 2 her ex too.

Hi Moe & welcome.

Some young people fall in with the people they date.
Others go out with people they simply like.

The results can be complicated.
Unrequited love is bitter sweet.

Remember, even if it doesn't feel that way at the time, it's best not to go out with someone who doesn't really want to be with you and who prefers someone else.

You will find the right girl for you in good time ~ someone you really like, who really likes you.

Good luck!