I was seeing this woman and things were good at first. We spent a lot of time together doing nothing at all and having fun doing it. Maybe too much time together for the beginning but that is neither here nor there. Recently, she has broken off all communication not initiated by me, so I obliged her and broke off communication too. I know it is over and I know she actually doesnt want to see or speak to me.

The problem is we are neighbors. Well that is one part of it. The last time we talked she said she missed me and invited me to her Birthday party. I stupidly said I miss her too and agreed to go. I believe she asked me to go because she thought I would say no.

Why wont she just tell me she doesnt want to see me anymore? Why the games? Is it because of the proximity of our houses?

Also, she left things here and she has some of my things there. How do I give her things back and get mine without it just looking like a ploy to get her to talk to me again? This is a very uncomfortable situation for me. I feel like I cant go outside without her thinking I am trying to see her. Any help would be appreciated.

u wert actig stupid at all Ip2. if u wat your stuff back, the just ask, like i eed my stuff back ad heres yours. she should uderstad. ad if she tals to u about your relatioship with her, the just do whateve u feel is right. just because she is your eighbors doest mea aythig so dot let that stad i your why...srry, my keyboards messed up