Every single one of us has hidden thoughts involving lifestyle changes. Even though you think "things will be the same when we move in together" - there are undoubtedly things you EXPECT will change. You might expect him to stop going out every night to bars. You might expect her to start cooking more meals. It's often hard to get a handle on what these expectations are. But it is critical to discuss them. The only way you two can find a happy life together is to discuss and understand these expectations.
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