Before you Talk to your Ex :
Closure is overrated.
I dated this guy for over a year. Starting Sept of 2006, we broke up for 4 days Nov 2006, and again Feb of 2007 for 2 months. Each time was a shock cause everything was PERFECT, wonderful even. His reasoning was "something wasnt there" I of coarse pined away and cried and emailed and myspaced but this time we broke up, he sent an email. Now at 27 and 30 years old, and over a year of commitment love and a really excellent relationship YOU just dont do that. I sent one email response pretty much saying "over email really?" and havent attempted to contact him again...
I know he needs more closure then that...well in my rage and heartbreak I dont care to give it to him. He's done things to provoke me...but let him suffer.
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