I had a really really REALLY bad break up with my ex. She stalked me after she dumped me, then said she wanted me back, then she said she didn't, she wasn't sure. She wouldn't leave me alone. I was trying to get over her and back to my normal life but she made it almost impossible. Then I met my current girlfriend. We met and were just friends at first nothing more. We trusted each other and things grew from there. While we were friends she and her boyfriend broke up. We comforted each other thru the pain. We were just the best of friends and always got along. She was so different and I adored her to death it was "like kindergarten". Eventually we fell in love and are now together. My point is I wasn't looking for love when I met her. I had stopped looking for love...which I think is the best way to find it.
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