Never argue about something someone has told you. You set yourself up to be treated the same way. If you get side swiped by a piece of news that may have some validity, and can't be ignored and it's from a source you can TRUST, approach it with your significant other with caution, giving them a chance to explain or tell their side. Never make it seem that you're believing hold heartedly what has been told to you. But make it known how embarrased and hurt you were to be told something that they should have told you instead of hearing it from someone outside your relationship. But you must be careful with this. Don't be petty. In my experience anything that's meant for you to know, you will eventually find out...with no ones help.
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