You might not realize it, but many guys are PETRIFIED of talking to a girl. So if the girl seems scary or uninterested, they will run away! Be as friendly as you can be. Smile, be happy, seem open for conversation. Don't go racing from place to place - stroll along slowly, so he has a chance to stop you and talk with you for a moment. Don't sit hunched over, avoiding eye contact. Sit back and smile, looking around the room. If you catch his eye, hold it for a second before you continue looking around.
You need to give guys the impression that you are easy to talk to - and that you will not bite their heads off if they make that scary first step. If a guy DOES start to talk to you, be encouraging. He probably overcame gigantic fears in talking to you - you want him to feel that it was worth it.
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