Don�t forget, you and your ex broke up for a reason. *Something* was wrong. Usually many things are wrong in order for a relationship to break up. People don�t change instantly, and even when they really want to it�s still extremely difficult to change habits.
If you and your ex are trying to get back together, you need to accept each other for what you are *now*. For the full package, with flaws and good parts and everything. If you are both willing to take each other as you are, then things have a good chance of working. If you get back together assuming the other person will change X and Y to fit your needs, you�re starting on very shaky ground.
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