In the search for a soulmate, you have so many expectations that itīs easy sometimes to look at someone and say, "Hey, she looks just like I imagined she would! She must be the one!"
Looks are only ONE part (and a small part) of what makes a person a unique individual. You might get some small sense of what she is by her looks, but what she is truly like inside is far more important. Take time to know your date, to spend weeks with him/her, to get past your imagination and fantasy and into what is real. Itīs that reality that makes a soulmate.
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