High School SweetheartWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I met my girlfriend in high school when we were 16 and we have only ever been intimate with each other. We have been together for 8 years (lived with for 3). Recently she has slept with someone else who has been hanging around her for the past few months. She seems to regret what she did, and I do still love her. How do I ever begin to trust her again? How do I stop reliving the event over and over again? I have been throwing up because of the stress. When I wake up its the first thought in my head. Its weird to me knowing that she gave herself to someone else so easily. I find it unsettling that while shes my one and only I'm not hers anymore. The image I have of her being my high school sweetheart is tainted and destroyed. I have no idea what to feel or what to do. User Submitted Advice from a 51-60 year old Female I made this tonight, and added soy sauce to the melted butter, and basted the chicken with that before adding the salt and pepper. A whole new dimension of dessiiousnecl! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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