Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Wait for right person


ive been 16 for about 4 months now and ive meet this guy who ive been dating 4 a week. We have been talking to eacHother for about 4 months. We have been on 5 dates together since school started. he is 17going on 18 and in college. Ithink he is a very respectful guy and been thinking about losing my virginity to him in the future. hes the only guy that ive been comfortable around and who i can talk 2 about anything. He says im a really "cool" girl. Were are both looking forward to meeting his parents and having dinner with them at this time. We haven't discussed about us having sex but i do know about his sexual history. He has had sex with 2 females and those 2 females he has done it with only once. I plan on losing my virginiy to him when i turn 17, therefore i think im at a respectful age where im mature and we have been together long enough ( if it gets to that point). Im falling greatly in love with him and i hope it will last un til i turn 17. My advice 2 all girls wanting to lose their virginity is to wait until u find the right person even if all your friends are'nt virgins . Even if your 19 and still a virgin its ok, u will love it when u find the right person to lose it with. ITS BETTER TO BE OLDER WHEN U LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY TO THE RIGHT PERSON THAN BE YOUNG AND REGRET IT!!

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