How long should you stay in an abuseful relationship with a person you really love?



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How long should you stay in an abuseful relationship with a person you really love?




User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Get out while you can


Get out now!! If they do it once and you stay it will only get worse. I have been married 4 times to very abusive men. I seem to attract them?? My last marriage the abuse started small, then it progressed with every arguement. Then the one day he took his anger out on my daughter. He hurt her very bad. He spent time in prison for this. He says he rehabilated.... But I have seen the rage still very much alive in him!! NO, I am not back with him. Tried for a while to at least be on speaking terms with him.... But the fact is, it is some thing that only in VERY RARE situations ever change! PLEASE, get out while you still can!!

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