Gawking at girlsWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Female What do you do when you are faced with a man that has stares at other woman, even in my presence. He says he does not realize when he is doing this. His father admitted that he does this as well and it is not on purpose. Although, I have no reason to believe that he would ever cheat on me, it makes me feel insecure and jealous. I have spoken with him about this and I do see some effort on his part not to stare when I am with him. Now here is the real puzzler, if this is a habit, can you be control of that habit you are not aware of doing? His career takes him out of town all the time for weeks on end. I wonder who he is eyeing up while he is gone, and what becomes of it. Am I wrong to feel jealous and insecure? Help! Signed: Puzzled User Submitted Advice from a 51-60 year old Female Follow instincts This is disrespectful. If it makes you uncomfortable, get out. Respect and be confident of your instincts. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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