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She Likes to Nude Sunbathe - I Don't Want Her To

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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I'm living in Europe, where topless at the beach or being nude in the sauna is for most people a normal thing.

Maybe i'm being a bit old fashion but nudity isn't a normal thing for me.

Now my girlfriend is sunbathing topless at the beach and is going nude to a mixed sauna. I'm fine with her doing this, that's not the problem. But when i asked her last time if she would stop doing this when i did ever have a problem with this, she said that she would continue doing this, because she thinks its normal and that it was my problem that i did have a problem with it.

she says she really loves me a lot, but with this answer i get a feeling that she doesn't love me enough because she would coninue doing this, even when i have a big problem with this, what do you think ?

Is it normal when she likes to do this, not to consider the feelings of her boyfriend when he did have a problem with it ?

Now i'm not asking her to stop laying topless or going nude to a sauna, but i have a problem if she says to continu doing this when i would have a problem with it, is this a normal thing and what can i do about it ?

I would really have a problem too if there's a guy that i really do not like with her at the beach when she's topless or at the sauna, or when she's at the local gym being nude in the sauna with some of the bodybuilding guys around her. If she does that, that would be over the limit for me, and if she says that she would continue doing this, i think the relation would be over.

I really feel that when she's with her male friends or the guys at the local gym at the beach or at the sauna she should look at me and check if i'm ok with it or else stop doing this, don't you think so ?

thanks for your help with these questions

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male

Let her cum sunbathe with me and she won't come back 2 u. Then u won't have 2 worry bout er.

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