She has a boyfriendWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male Hello again! Well, I have bad news. I struck out again. I was talking to the girl I liked and she then blurted out that she has a boyfriend! I KNEW IT!!!!! Of course, I knew I had to be okay with this. Well, I'm about to just give up on this when I really don't want to. My shyness and my being EXTREMELY anti-social (I see being anti-social as a VERY bad thing, 100x worse than shyness, IMO) is keeping me from getting what I want for almost 3 years! (I am now 17) This HAS to be fixed and it has to be fixed NOW! I would like you to tell me, or better yet, EXPLAIN to me IN DETAIL just what am I doing wrong? You have to help me! I will never find anyone, EVER! I really don't want to be alone for the rest of my life! Thanks again! Sorry if I seem angry. (I am!) User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Everyone gets shy. If you feel yourself worrying too much, just think "no" and think about other stuff. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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