Loosen up and talk about her emotionsWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I find it hard for me to express my emotions or affections toward guys. Maybe its because I don't want to get my heart broken or expect to much. I feel that I'm just to complicating for a guy to understand.I've never had those long kissing moments because I fear my emotions and whether or not i'm a good kisser. I'm waiting for the guy to tell me he likes me..because its not me just to tell a guy I like them. It's always "I'm feeling you somewhat" type of thing I prefer staying. I don't want to open up because I feel that I'm just one of his ordainary girls that he gets.. he's the type of guy that most of the girls I know are attracted to. Thats why I choose to just be friends with him. I feel that he has so many other options than choosing me over other girls. How can I break lose out of this problem and show that I want to move to a serious relationship with my guy friend. I don't know how to loosen up and talk about my emotions. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Free your emotions This is so true, growing up I felt like I had to block emotions to survive, but then I moved away from that environment and now I have a huge amount of difficulty to show any emotion at all. This has affected me academically (especially in speech) and my personal life. This is coming from someone who learned the hard way, if you kill your emotions, they might not come back! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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