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Tales of the Ex @ RomanceClass - Don't ever get involved with a man that hits you Ok here goes. I met my first husband when I was 18, we dated for about a year then we moved in together. He was really handsome, and I melted when I first saw him. Anyway, after 5 years, we married and had a son. Things were ok until his parents decided to "buy for us" a mobile home and put it on their property. It was supposed to be our so called wedding gift but yet it couldn't be in our names because his mother wanted to see if our marriage was going to last. Ha ha ha. Anyway, after a year I decided I couldn't live next door to my ex mother in law because she was always interferring in our lives. My ex was truly a momma's boy. He liked his beer and pot as well. I figured he would out grow these habits after a few years but he never did. I moved in with my Mother until I could find another place to live for myself and my son. He was only 8 months old when I left my ex. After a month, he begged me to come live with me and I broke down and said yes. We got back together but I refused to have anything to do with is mother and I told him if he was going to continue to be a momma's boy, that I didn't want to be with him. He said he would change. Things were ok for another 2 years, then he came home drunk one night and decided he was going to use me as a punching bag. I had him arrested. In the mean time, we had put a deposit down on a place of our own and was to have our closing in a month. Once again, he promised not to ever lay hands upon me again so I once again, broke down and let him back into our lives. We purchased our own place and he did stop drinking but he still continued to smoke pot. He let his habit destroy our lives because he was taking the bill money and spending it on pot. Needless to say, I had already decided that I didn't want to be with him any longer, and I would only stay with him until our son was old enough to understand why I was leaving his father. At the time our son was now 6 years old. I don't know how I managed to live with him another 10 years, but all in all, we had been together for 24 years. So things started to get worse between us and he decided to start hitting me once again. I again had him arrested and removed from our home. He was charged with assault as well as possession of drugs since he decided to keep his bag of pot in his pocket this particular day. I might tell you, I didn't allow pot to be smoked inside out house, if he wanted to use drugs, they had to be away from our son. We had a very rocky relationship and I felt sorry for him so I would always take him back after a cooling off period. Big mistake!!! How I finally ended our relationship was when my brother had to have surgery and asked if he could come stay with me afterwards. I did say yes after I had consulted my ex husband. But when it came time for my brother to come stay with us from the hospital, my ex didn't want him there. He stormed out of the house and went to his mother and asked her to help him pay for a lawyer to get a divorce from me. Yippie, I was free of his abusiveness, drug using, nonworking jerk!!! I was free and loving it. But that didn't stop him from harassing me, he continued to harass me every time he saw me. What his reasoning was, is beyond me. I finally had the last straw when he tried to run my son and I off the road and he was locked up. I have since remarried and moved out of state so I don't have to look at him and he can't harass me any more. Our son choose to move with me and is very happy with his new life, and new stepfather, who treats him as if he were his own. Don't ever get involved with a man that hits you, then promises you it will never happen again, because you are asking for it if you stay with him. Love is one thing, but abuse is another. Slime-O-Meter  5.00 out of 5 slimes Add your vote! How many slimes does this ex rate? 1 is lowest, 5 is highest. Submit your own story Most Recent Tales Disclaimer: All tales are submitted by anonymous users and can be assumed to be complete fabrications from these users. RomanceClass.com removes all identifying information and is not responsible for the stories that are shared here. The stories are for entertainment purposes only.
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