If he is not feeling it?

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I met a guy through the internet and it seemed that we hit it off right away. I have been on three dates with him so far. The thing is, I am always calling him to set up these dates and feel like he isn't that interested, but he doesn't avoid me and has gone on every date that I set up. He made a comment to a mutual friend online that he doesn't feel the "wow" factor, but tells me in person that he is interested and that I have a lot going for me (in so many words and in other ways). He doesn't pull away from me when I try to hug him, but he doesn't make any moves himself.

I am confused as to why he continues to go out with me if he is not feeling it? Should I give up?




Our Suggestion:
He seems to be feeling out the situation.

While going out on a date with you is ok for him, it isn't a priority.

Maybe more dates will encourage his feelings. It's up to you.

Good luck! George

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