Screwed up........need some help

Suggest Advice

Do you have some advice for this person?

Visitor's Question:
I am a freshman in high school and I used to have a lot of courage around guys. I had a crush on a junior for a really long time and he knew that I liked him. One of my friends asked him if he woul go out with me and he said not right now because he had just broke up with this girl. I gave up on him almost completely, but I still think about him. I then wrote a very private note to a senior and he went around and told all of his friends and I became the school joke over Winter break. So there are two strikes, and I have tried it again. I wrote a note to a sophomore that I really like and he has practically avoided me the whole time. I called him later on in the week and he wasn't home, but I asked for him to call me back. He never returned my phone call. I have liked him for an extremely long time. We played soccer together and we had our fun moments. He has a twin brother that gives me evil looks now that I wrote him the note.

I really don't know what to do if this becomes my third strike. I won't have any courage or self-esteem left if he says no or if he just leaves me alone and never talks to me again. Please help.




Our Suggestion:
First off, forget about strikes.

You are doing what you should do and I admire you for having the courage that so many people lack. Don't lose this courage over a string of rejections.

Next time why not try somebody your own age and see what happens.

You will find your love! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




Your Advice:

IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages.



Your Gender:
Female | Male

Your Age Range: