Are we talking insecurity here?!Suggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hello... well here's the deal: i have a boyfriend i love to bits... i mean, crazy about him, really... the trouble is, we're always fighting and it's always the same thing: he's afraid i might cheat on him, i might like another guy, i might be getting tired of him... but i'm not, and when everything's fine between us i can really show that... but then he can always dig up some little thing i said or did and turn it around against me.. and the little detail missing here is that his ex girlfriend cheated on him... and now i feel like i'm being judged by someone else's actions, or that i might not even be suitable for relationships 'cause i can't give someone the safety and security that he needs. and never even thought of cheating on me... please help, it's driving me crazy... please... Our Suggestion: You are having difficulty with the issue of trust. Here is an excellent website that should give you insight into your b/f's feelings and how to deal with them: http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm You might want to ask your b/f to take a look too. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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