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Me and this girl are going out. She used to be one of my best friends until we both saw each other differently, somehow. We have been going out for several weeks now and we havent had much "intimacy" i guess you would call it. i asked her and she said that she is spooked to do things with me because she doesnt think im easy to do things with, even though i try to do a LOT of intimate stuff with her. She's so hard to do stuff with, What should I do???

age 14




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Sounds like she is shy.

Be more gentle and start from the beginning. Tell her what you are going to do and if she doesn't say no, then do it gently. Start with hugs, hand holding, kissing, etc.

Good luck! George

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