How do you Have Sex?

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Hi thanks for your help its been great i want to know how to have sex




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I think this is a question for a biology teacher, not for a romance site :) And I honestly have to say that if you do not yet understand the physical parts of a human body, you're really not ready to HAVE sex. Sex is something that causes a baby to be born. Even if you're a virgin, even if you use a condom, there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy. You have to ask yourself if you're ready to pay for and take care of a baby 24 hours a day.

Yes, sex brings pleasure. But you don't have to have sex to HAVE that pleasure. You can get the exact same pleasure through other intimate acts. Again, if you don't know that yet, you shouldn't be racing past all those other acts to leap into sex. The beauty of relationships is that you build them up over time, relishing every touch, every new discovery. If you leap over everything and just jump into sex, you miss out on a LOT.

It's like buying a really great movie and fast forwarding to the ending scene. If you didn't bother to watch the rest of the movie and experience the "build-up", the ending part will not mean very much to you. It's the build-up that makes it so great.

But if you really MUST know without actually learning for yourself, sex involves the male putting his male organ into the female's organ. Hopefully you know that the male has a male sex organ and the female has a female sex organ! One is like a hot dog. The other is like a tube. You put one in the other. The end. It's really a pretty straightforward act, once both people agree! The entire purpose of this act is for the male's sperm to get inside the female, and create a baby. Again, if you're not ready for the baby, you should be exploring the many OTHER ways to bring each other sexual pleasure.

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