it heats up what do i do

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Visitor's Question:
ok well me and my girlfriend will be sitting on a bed wether hers mine or someone elses but still well be making out and she'll fall backward and ill follow her and every time she seems to just go with it and i have absolutely no clue what to do or how to do it.......im 14 and she is 16 shes had more experiance and im almost afraid to do some things because im afraid that she'll think something like "what is he doing?".....




Our Suggestion:
To find out what she wants to do try one of two things.

First is to simply ask her. She will be happy that you did.

Or, if you can't handle that, gently and softly try to touch different parts of her body and make sure she is pleased by what you are doing. If she stiffens up or moves your hand then you know you've gone too far.

Then again, she may just feel more comfortable lying down ... but you won't find out unless you ask or try.

Good luck! George

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