Sex: isn't going to fit Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Me and my girlfriend have been really close for about 2 months now and we were talking about having sex. When it came to being alone and talking to eachother and having an awsome time together we went upstairs to bedroom and got intimate. Then when it came round to trying to have sex i found that its not going to fit. Maybe something to help? I'm not sure if it's just me that thinks its going to be very tight or if thats just normal? Our Suggestion: Try using your fingers and see how tight it is. Ask her what her previous experience has been. Perhaps she has vaginismus which is a contraction of the vaginal muscles to the point where penetration is not possible. If vaginismus seems to be the cause, she might want to check with her doctor or gynecologist. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes