Boyfriend still talks to ex g/f!!

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I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now, I moved in with him 4 months ago. When we first started going out he said that he still cares about his ex and they still talk. I didn't have a problem with that at first. The first 7 months she called him constantly and would not leave him alone. I started getting jealous so I confronted him. Since then he doesn't talk to her in front of me but still talks to her. I have asked him what they talk about and he says when he has problems that he can't deal with he talks to her. I asked why he doesn't talk to me and he says I don't have any good points. And also he talks to her about are relationship when we have problems. It really gets me jealous. I have alot of trust issues and I don't know If I can ever trust the guy, I used to have alot of control over my trust for him but, when he accused me of cheating on him he didn't trust me, so therefore I thought he did something. It has been 4 months now, ever since I started living with him. Should I move out and gain our trust back?




Our Suggestion:
I'm not sure what good moving out would do.

It's not likely to help you regain your trust... and even if you did, what are you going to do? Move back in with again?

Since he feels more comfortable talking with her than with you, my advice is to move out but only to forget him, not to try to make things better.

Good luck! George

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