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There is this girl that I have known for 3 years. We have become good friends. We hang out a few times a week and we always have the best times. I have talked to her about how I feel but she says that she still has things going on with another guy. She doesn't say that she doesn't like me like that, or that it is better that we just stay friends. So i am confused on what to do. She calls me when she wakes up in the morning and tells me to call her when I get home at night. Granted i don't always call but she still says to. It is really confusing, I feel like I might be in the "friends zone" but its hard to tell. When we hang out its like nothing in the world matters, no worries, everything is simple and uncomplicated. I'm looking for an outside opppion. What should I do?




Our Suggestion:
What you do depends on how strong your feelings are for her.

The way you describe the way things go when you hang out seems ideal. Why rock the boat unless you are really bitten by the love bug? If there are going to be stronger feelings why not wait for her to make the move?

My advice is to gently bring up the subject every month or so and see how she responds.

Good luck! George



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