I am falling in love with a guy that is in a relationship with someone else?

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I am in love with a guy that live in the same state as i do.The problem is he is with someone else in another state. This person is the mother of his last child. He claim he love me and don't love her but i honestly don't know what to believe. Then i really wouldn't like for him to hurt his family.I don't know what i should? Should i continue this relation or let it go before it goes any further? I am so afraid of getting hurt that i don't know if i should run. He keep telling me that he is staying with her because he have to get to know me better and he don't want to just leave her yet.




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It sounds to me like he is confused about what he wants.

You are caught in the middle and can't trust his feelings. My advice is to tell him that you don't want to see him again until he makes up his mind about his family.

It is unfair to you for him to treat you this way.

Good luck! George

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