I know this is wrong, but I can't help it Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I work in a tech company. Pretty smart guy when it comes to brains, but a dumb when it comes to heart. When I joined this job from another country, I found myself attracted to a lady in my office(same Dep). I was single at that time and I'm still single. Somehow I allowed that feeling to grow in me about my colleague, and did not tried to check it until I learned (after 6 months) that she is married and has 2 kids. Since, then I'm fighting a battle from with in. My heart loves her, but the culture side of my brain makes me feel guilty about this whole affair. I can't stop thinking about her and at the same time I can't stop feeling guilty. Now to make the matter worse, she became my boss. Every time I see her, my heart starts to beat rapidly and I loose the idea of time or sense of purpose. Please help me. It is tearing me apart. Our Suggestion: Two solutions come to mind. First one is to find another woman to take her off your mind. Surely you can get dates, right? Second is to get a new job... either within your company or find another company to work for. I wouild not recommend confessing to her as that would just make things more awkward. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes