I am married and want my ex boyfriend back!!

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I have been married for 4 yrs, but I think i am still in love with my ex boyfreind whom I broke up with right before I got married, ( i was cheating on my husband with him) I love my husband very much but I cannot stop thinkning about my ex. I have finacial stabilty with my husband and that is why i married him although I do love him. I have not talked to my ex in 4 years but i currently sent him a letter telling him how I feel anonoumosly. I love my husband but i think I am in love with my ex and its making me miserable and I am sure my ex wouldnt want me back anyway... what should I do???




Our Suggestion:
This is probably a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence."

Stop thinking about your ex. That is a dead end. You are just making yourself miserable. Don't write any more letters and don't contact your ex in any fashion. Even considering the possibility is just making things worse.

Start planning a nice vacation with your husband. Europe next summer or an all-inclusive Caribbean this winter... or both :)

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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