She likes her friends more than me!!!

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I liked my girlfriend for about 4 months. I finally asked her out about 4 days ago because my friend who is also her friend said she liked me. But I try to call and talk to her but she is always talking to her friends. Yesterday I called her and she was talking to her friends. She said she would call me back. So I wait. Finally about 8 hours later and a couple of emails to the before mentioned friend she calls me. We've talked about an hour since the day I asked her out. We're going out tonight with another couple and the 1st friend. I called her last night to set it up and she asks me if I called because I was bored!!! She's only a year younger than me(I'm almost 16) but she seems to not want to talk to me and would rather talk to her friends. I thought relationships were about being friends? Why does she not want to talk?




Our Suggestion:
I hope your date was successful.

She may be too shy or immature to be able to talk with you.

Make sure you have things to talk about when you call her. Since she is so close to her friends, ask her about each one by name... or if you don't know their names, find out.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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